Menopause – a myth?

I think of the term “menopause” as a fictional diagnosis.

In fact, there are regions in the world where the term is virtually unknown. For example in Asia. In Western countries, on the other hand, menopause is not only considered a big deal, but it’s also presented as source of suffering for women.

However, I would argue that the phase of life in which women no longer have the biological ability to get pregnant is far less dramatic from a physiological point of view than many believe.

Even during menopause, women retain over half of their female hormones.

At the same time, the male hormone testosterone starts to take over. As a result, many women suddenly feel a greater desire for sex. As the saying goes: “There’s no fox like an old fox.”

A lesser-known fact is that men are much worse off than women as they age. Why? As their testosterone levels drop over time, men lose part of their sex drive—and this isn’t something they can restore naturally.

For women, on the other hand, it’s possible to find substances in the plant world that replicate the effects of female hormones. First and foremost, I want to mention soy, the miracle plant. Tofu and its cousins are outstanding sources of phytoestrogens (estrogen derived from plants). In addition, there’s a whole range of plants, including yam root, that can create effects similar to the female hormone progesterone.

These plant-based substances make it possible for women to balance out hormonal deficits in their bodies.

Whatever your gender, if you believe you’re going through “menopause”:

Two “S’s”—sports and sex—

are the most effective things you can do. Both activities create a hormone release that helps keep the body balanced and fit. If you often work up a sweat during sports or sex, hormone-related sweating becomes less and less of an issue.

Ultimately, it’s up to us as individuals to determine whether or not we’re going through “menopause.”

My gender-neutral prescription for “menopause” is:
  • Exercising 3 times per week
  • Having sex 2 times per week
  • A tasty tofu-based dish 2 times per week
  • And for women: Yam root supplements in the form of tea or skin gel, 2 weeks per month.

Voilà.

 

Can the right skin-care routine make you look younger?

You could spend hours every day with all the skin-care products on the market right now.

Most of these products make big promises: a youthful appearance, solutions for every skin problem, and the general feeling that you’re taking good care of yourself and doing the right thing for your skin.

In addition to simple and inexpensive products, you can also find so-called high-tech skin products in drug stores and pharmacies, which have been subject to years of laboratory testing by experts. Offering scientific proof, many of these products claim they’re capable of transforming the skin in a matter of weeks. And their prices reflect these claims.

In any case, it’s definitely important to take time every evening to free the skin from the stresses of the day—to cleanse, refresh and apply your favorite skin care cream. In the morning, it’s best to repeat this ritual in order to feel good throughout the day.

But is it possible to rejuvenate the skin with the “right” skin-care regimen?

In the post “How You Can Lower Your Biological Age”, I describe all the things you can do to have a positive impact on the body and the skin. Taken as a whole, these steps can shave up to 10 years off your biological age.

Unfortunately, the effects of skin care alone aren’t that far-reaching.

When we buy an expensive cream in a breathtakingly beautiful jar, we often experience an emotional high. We expect it to fix all of our skin problems. We apply it religiously. It’s an overwhelmingly good feeling!

But the fact is facial massage and facial exercises can do more for your skin’s appearance than any skin-care product, no matter how high-end or sophisticated it is.

So, as far as products go, the best thing to do is choose a skin-care line that suits your skin type and only costs enough money to make the investment seem reasonable. The differences between skin products, and the effects they have, are truly minimal.

With that in mind, here’s my skin-care routine:
Mornings:
  • Cleansing with a facial toner
  • Serum
  • Day cream, depending on the skin type—a rich, moisturizing cream is best
  • Make-up, if desired
Evenings:
  • Cleansing gel
  • Toner
  • Acid peeling every other day
  • Night cream with high oil content
Once a week: a face mask, as an extra source of relaxation.

Voilà.

 

Bio-Age – the mental side

Beginning in our early 40s, we start to ask ourselves: if that’s all there is?

Is it all over when it comes to our youthful energy, our thirst for adventure, and our willingness to experiment with a new profession or a new relationship? As time passes, these questions only grow more persistent.

At the same time, we live in an age when life expectancy is increasing, along with the opportunity to lead a full and varied life well into old age. With respect to aging, there’s no comparison to where we were 50 or 100 years ago.

These days, 40 is the new 30, 50 the new 40—and 60 the new 50.

However, if you’ve reached the point where you’re not expecting anything more from your life. Then you can also expect that things to remain as they are. In other words, if you’re convinced that you’re already too old for certain things, you’re creating your own barriers and limits.

If, on the other hand, you demand more out of life, then you ultimately create a self-fulfilling prophecy—in a positive sense. Exerting yourself physically in order to maintain and even improve your body’s ability to function—and delay its decline—is one aspect of this positive approach to aging.

In the post BioAge ; How you can lower your Biological Age I describe this physical aspect in detail.

At the same time, nothing stands in the way of your ability to grab onto all that life has to offer from a psychological perspective. But if you look at your life and focus on all the things you can’t reach, then they’ll remain under lock and key! Just like at the drugstore, where you have to ask for the keys to the coveted, high-end products in the glass cabinet.

In other words, there’s nothing you have to do without as you grow older, as long as it falls within ethical and legal limits.

On Instagram, for example, when I see portraits of women and men with grey grey hair and wrinkles wearing colorful, sophisticated clothes that some might consider age-inappropriate, I think: “How great that they don’t hold back from presenting themselves the way they want.”

I’m not saying you should put pressure on yourself to show off. Not at all. What I am saying is that we can each pursue happiness in our own way, according to our own rules.

Essentially, it comes down to developing the kind of awareness and expectations that enable us to live life without having to think too much about aging.

When we have this inner freedom, we tend to feel light and content—which in turn makes us feel more relaxed, knowing that our lives are far from over!

Voilà

 

Do we need nutritional supplements?

If I had to answer this question with “yes” or “no,” I would say “yes.”

However, it depends on which nutritional supplements you’re considering, as well as the dosage and the time of year.

First and foremost, I want to talk about vitamin D. These days, there’s a lot of debate about vitamin D, and experts often have opposing opinions about it. In this case, I would go with golden mean and recommend 500 I.U. of vitamin D every other day during the winter months from November to May. Ideally, combine it with calcium and vitamin K.

At this dosage, you’re neither in danger of exceeding the recommended daily allowance nor of having a deficiency (which is due to a lack of UV radiation, which ultimately leads to the formation of vitamin D in the skin).

Vitamin D with calcium promotes strong bones, a resilient immune system—and can improve your mood.

In addition to vitamin D, I recommend a 4-week B vitamin treatment every 2 months. If you’re a vegan, B vitamin treatments are indispensable, especially vitamin B12 (which you should take on a daily basis).

For women, along with B vitamin treatments, taking iron supplements is also a good idea.

For people over age 60, every two months I recommend a 4-week treatment with supplements that promote cartilage formation: 500 mg glucosamine hydrochloride and 400 mg chondroitin sulphate per day. In combination with moderate exercise, this regimen can considerably delay cartilage decay, which in turn helps you avoid (or lesson) arthritis-related pain and reduce the need for a possible operation in the long-term.

As part of this cartilage-building regimen, I also recommend taking 12 mg of vitamin E per day. During periods when you’re not taking vitamin E, make sure your diet is rich in flaxseed, pumpkin, or sunflower oil. You can easily sprinkle these oils over your food, for example.

I also want to mention the importance of taking  selenium, which prevents micro-inflammations and can thus help counteract the development of cancer cells. 50 mg of selenium per day is sufficient.

In summary:

  • Every 2 months for 4 weeks: B vitamin treatment (for women, in combination with iron supplements), plus 50 mg selenium per day
  • From November to May: 500 I.U of vitamin D + calcium and vitamin K every other day
  • For people over 60, every 2 months for 4 weeks: cartilage-building supplements + 12 mg vitamin E per day
  • On days when you exercise, I recommend a sports drink that contains 400 mg of magnesium

What about “designer” supplements that claim to boost your mental faculties? I classify them under the motto, “take them if it helps.”

For  women who happen to be in a menopause mood Menopause; a myth?

Voilà.

Live out your sexuality

I’d like to focus on female sexuality in this post.

This is still a taboo topic, and it’s often perceived as unimportant or secondary. I particularly want to address the meaning and significance of sexuality for women during their prime. After all, sexuality isn’t something that only belongs to the young and beautiful.

We know that sex represents “the world’s greatest pasttime” for men. But what does it represent for us?

First of all, I’d like to clarify the biological foundations of female sexuality. The statement that “female sexuality is practically inexhaustible” hits the nail on the head.

Of course, this statement doesn’t refer to the prerequisites for getting pregnant. As we know, they are limited. However, as women, we have the potential to retain the ability to reach sexual climax into old age. Meanwhile, some men experience a certain decline in their capacity to reach orgasm from their mid-50s onwards.

Besides our ability to achieve climax into old age, here’s the cherry on the sundae for women: the female body is also capable of having an orgasm several times in a row.

Still, many women might say there are more important things in life than sex.

I would argue that this statement comes from having limited experience with satisfying sex, or from banishing sex from our consciousness. For women, sexual climax isn’t just about momentary pleasure. It also creates a hormone release that facilitates health, balance, and external attractiveness.

This is reason enough to come to terms with your own sexuality.

At the same time, it’s important to take a look at your sexual partner(s).

Apart from women in happy relationships with satisfying sex lives, there are many women who either don’t have satisfactory sex with their partners or who simply don’t have a sexual partner. In this case, you want to take the responsibility for your sexuality into your own hands—literally.

These days, there are a myriad of ways to find “technical assistance” in this area, depending on your individual preferences. The biggest online retailer in the world has thousands of options available. They work beautifully, giving women the sexual satisfaction their partners might not be able to provide.

However, if you prefer to go without “technical assistance,” i.e. if you prefer to connect with a physical partner to feel satisfied, “sexting” can be a good alternative. But be careful: this approach has the potential to become addictive, so don’t rely on it too heavily.

Here’s my tip: put on your most beautiful lingerie, light some candles, pour yourselves a glass of wine (or not!), pick out your favorite erotic movie or chat for a while—and off you go.

Two times a week is a healthy amount. Have fun!

What you can do furthermore BioAge; How you can lower your Biological Age

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LOSE WEIGHT THE RIGHT WAY!

“Weight loss” is a powerful term that leads many people to believe they’re carrying around “more than they need.”

Being at a lower body weight means being in good health, looking good, and enjoying a higher quality of life. Which is partly true. Inevitably, when we’re thinking about weight loss, the first thought that comes to mind is: which diet is best? That is, which diet is the fastest way to melt away those cushions of fat?

The answers to this question—in the form of dietary suggestions and tools—are all over the media, in pharmacies, and on the market. This helps generate big sales in the diet and wellness industries.

In my opinion, however, no diet on its own is capable of helping us lose weight!

Besides that, women in particular need a certain amount of body fat to stay healthy. My post Love your fat cushions! has more information about this idea.

Instead of starting with diet, we want to approach weight loss from the other end. In other words, we want to ask ourselves:

“What do I do?” instead of “What do I eat?”

First and foremost, when it comes to weight loss, we have to give up our “I’m feeling lazy” diet! Why? One of the best ways to decrease body fat is to increase muscle mass through exercise and sports.

Even when we’re at rest, our muscles burn energy. In other words, our muscles are the best natural weight-loss remedy that comes from within.

But this doesn’t mean that exercising gives you permission to pig out. There are still a few rules to follow here. Still, there’s nothing wrong with indulging yourself now and then. In fact, it’s a good idea to do it occasionally. Why? Giving yourself permission to splurge contributes to feelings of inner satisfaction—and to your long-term success!

Here’s my strategy for successful, long-term weight loss:
  • 3 times/week: 1 hour of exercise (45 minutes of cardio and 15 minutes of strength training)
  • 2 times/week: 20 minutes of stretching and/or yoga
  • 1 time/week: 15-30 minutes of dancing
  • 1 time/week: Rest
Nutrition: not so many carbs, lots of protein, fresh vegetables, 2-3 liters of sugar-free/alcohol-free fluids per day

Voilà.

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Love your fat cushions!

Looking at the paintings from the Rubens era, I ask myself why the ideals of female beauty have changed so much over the years.

The gaunt models on today’s catwalks would have been out of the question as models for artists like Rembrandt. Still, current beauty icons have a huge impact on the world of women today and drive many girls to despair.

On social networks, on billboards, and in the media, fit bodies represent health and attractiveness. They’re showcased as role models, or prerequisites, for happiness.

In that spirit, various diets and sports programs come into play as declarations of war against fat deposits and belly fat—which supposedly cause disease and represent a mortal sin.

Don’t get me wrong: Exercise and a healthy diet can certainly help keep us fit and beautiful.

But the question is: are we allowed to have a little “fat padding” or not? And, if so, how much? My position is clear: Women need a healthy amount of fat padding!

Why? Our fat padding contains a considerable amount of female hormones, especially estrogens, which help keep the body elastic and supple. So if we’re missing fat deposits, we’re also missing a stock of hormones we might need!

On the question of attractiveness: According to a survey, many men find women with curves more attractive than women with flawless, fat-free, ultra-fit bodies.

An ultra-fit body may be considered a sign of athletic prowess. However, when it comes to sexuality, it’s less about athletic performance and more about warmth and relaxation. Read: Live out your sexuality

So, dear ladies, the next time you stand on the scale or look in the mirror and notice a little something pouring over the edge of your panties, stay calm and be kind to yourself. It’s just your curvy femininity, which the old masters knew how to appreciate in their day.

Love your body! And explain to your partner why they should love it, too!

Voilà.

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BioAge – How you can lower your Biological Age

Have you ever woken up and wondered why you don’t jump out of bed and feel ready to tackle the day’s challenges with energy and vitality, like you did when you were young? Do you have the nagging feeling that, in the second half of your life, things suddenly take more time than they used to? Is this something you should feel depressed about?Absolutely not. But the Answer is: Biological Age!

As the saying goes, “You’re only as old as you feel.”

Ultimately, feeling younger comes down to simply changing a few things—especially the things that don’t make you feel good—on both: physical and mental level.

Physical and mental health, as you know, are mutually dependent. Your physical health is the basis for everything: if you’re not feeling good in your body, then you’re limiting your ability to use your mind in the most effective way. Read: Bio-Age the mental side

Let’s start on the physical level.  There’s no reason to feel resigned about getting older. Science offers us both comfort and hope. So does nature. How so? By focusing on your “biological age,” or BA for short, which can vary up to 10 years (plus or minus) from your chronological age. Do you know your own BA?

There are 3 ways to categorize your BA:

Your’re
  1. older than your chronological age, or your age in calendar years
  2. the same age as your chronological age
  3. younger than your chronological age

Which of these options appeals to you most? Feeling older than, or the same age as, your chronological age doesn’t involve any effort. Meanwhile, feeling younger than your chronological age is something you actually have to work toward. At first, lowering your BA might seem like a challenge. But believe me, it’s not difficult—and on top of that, making an effort to feel younger can actually be fun. The first step is to determine your biological age. There are a variety of institutions, mostly university clinics, where you can have your biological age measured.

No matter what your biological age is now, the important thing to remember is that you have the power to change it. It largely depends on the condition of your blood vessels and musculoskeletal system. So how do you go about lowering your biological age? It’s actually very simple. It involves paying attention to

Three main aspects of your lifestyle:

  1. Fitness
  2. Nutrition
  3. Relaxation

The first two are clear. The third category includes things like getting enough sleep, losing yourself in activities you love, and sex. I’d like to (briefly) take a closer look at these three areas of our lives.

Fitness

Do you have to buy a bunch of exercise equipment and join a gym to stay in shape? Not necessarily. If you’re already athletic, I don’t need to tell you what to do. At any rate, as you get older, you’ll be forced to slow down eventually. For those of you who work out little or not at all, however, it’s important to keep in mind that your body needs to be in motion every day. Doing sports is a way to go beyond your body’s daily need for movement. The key is to find a middle way that works for you. With that in mind, you want to seek out activities that make you sweat, at least a little.

The ideal formula looks like this: 1 hour of sweat-inducing exercise 3 times a week. It doesn’t matter which activity you choose. The best exercise is the one you like the most—not including sex. We’ll get to sex later. What form of exercise do you like best? For me, it’s dancing. I’ve been a member of a dancing club for five years, and I find that dancing totally energizes me, both physically and emotionally. But you don’t have to be a member of a dance team to do it; dancing is nothing more than moving in time to music. It can be as simple as putting on your favorite songs and moving “freestyle.” Every day for 10 to 15 minutes in your living room. That’s it.

You can also supplement your exercise routine by doing things like skipping the elevator and taking the stairs, and walking whenever possible.

Diet/Nutrition

Do you think you need a diet plan that includes exact calorie counts and recommended daily allowances? Does everything have to be organic? Is going vegan the best alternative? Not necessarily.

Simple principles apply here, too: about 3 meals a day, more vegetables than fruit, more raw than cooked, more whole grains than refined flour, and more fish than meat. And always eat until you’re satisfied. Organic products are definitely preferable, but eating organic doesn’t have to be a religion.

Drink a lot of water, and avoid fruit juices or too much alcohol, which the body converts into sugar.

Relaxation

Sitting in the sun and daydreaming? It’s a great idea, but you don’t always have the time or the chance, do you? Each of us has different opportunities to relax, along with different ways of doing it.

For me, for example, “clothing management” is extremely relaxing. I love rummaging through my wardrobe and deciding whether my clothes are still up to date and attractive.

How do you know if you’re doing something that relaxes you? First of all, it happens naturally. When you’re truly relaxed, you’re in a “flow” state. It’s easy to forget about whatever problems you might be dealing with, like when you’re lounging around in bed and daydreaming about something you might want to learn, instead of obsessing about what might go wrong with your next project. In any case, resting for about eight hours every night is also an indispensable part of lowering your biological age.

And what about sex? I consider sex to be another important factor that affects your biological age.

To be continued.

Your Ninelle M.

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